Wednesday, February 7

All Grown Now

"The days are long the years are short", is a refrain oft repeated by older women whose children have grown, to the younger mothers who are in the thick of the day to day busy life of parenting. The cleaning, the feeding, the running from one activity to another, the homeschool lessons or homework help of those in schools, the laundry, the... well you get the idea, you've likely lived it.

My view is currently from the looking back on how short those years really were. Though the parenting does continue but in entirely different form. I am blessed to have three adult children who consult with my husband and myself on a number of life choices. Sometimes we have wise counsel for them and sometimes we don't but we are both always honored that they respect us enough to seek our input.

Though I am looking back on the intensive years of raising children, I have not stopped thinking about the importance of hands on parenting, about the choices I see as most beneficial for families then and now. I have not stopped considering how I can help to provide benefits for a larger community through our family's experience and influence. 

I spent the very early years of parenting learning and enjoying the process of natural birth and breastfeeding my babies. Oh what beautiful, challenging and empowering days those were. Seeing my children thrive while allowing God's design unfold before us as a family was pure joy. With wise healthcare practitioners as advisors and a found tribe of other mothers following similar paths we shared and grew and learned. All those choices lead eventually to homeschooling our children. I wasn't about to let some arbitrary institution damage all that I saw flourishing in my family.

I often thought about writing about parenting and my mothering experiences as they were happening with young ones, but then finding time to do so was difficult. When I did have the inspiration and find the time to write, it seemed to take me out of living the life in the moments with my family. These days that is how I sometimes feel about taking time to document and post about our lives on social media.

Writing comes more easily now, looking back on the experiences and choices, it doesn't take me out of the immediate moment as much from this distant view. I still feel compelled to share what I learned. I still believe it is important to encourage those who are in the thick of  the bustle and business of parenting. Those are often the times that the big picture isn't so big and it's just about getting through the day. A kind reminder can be useful in the midst of the thick of it. From here what matters can be seen more readily, what has and will create a lasting bond and how building a loving gang of your own can contribute to the world.



Thursday, June 1

Summer into Choosing Homeschooling

Shared interests and hands-on learning
are just a few of the highlights from our days
of homeschooling. Photo from our family archives

Summer is ideal for enjoying family time.  Activities that promote bonding, hands-on learning together and just plain fun. It is also a great time to consider the option of continuing a lifestyle of home education and family based learning. 

To read the full article on how we arrived at the choice for our children to learn at home, visit my article at https://americanmom.com/family/homeschooling/arriving-at-the-choice-to-homeschool/ where I am a contributor.


The Pros of Homeschooling

By choosing to homeschool we did in fact avoid (even beginning two decades ago) many unpleasant, intrusive, and harmful experiences, but more importantly we gained and maintained our own faith filled and freedom loving family culture. We didn’t homeschool to escape, we homeschooled to create

Friday, May 26

Give It a Listen

West Africa heritage and Estonian heritage meet in Chicago for this blended musical project. 



Ojo is originally from Nigeria. He is an accomplished dancer and has lived in the Chicago area for three decades. My husband Avo, a first generation American whose family immigrated from Estonia, has worked with Ojo over many of those years. As teaching artists they have both spent considerable time working with students of all ages throughout Chicago. They each bring the love of rhythm, music and dance to their students. Their skills in these areas give them unique abilities to engage with students of all ages. Their musical collaborations are a dynamic blend of the individual dance and musical experiences they each bring from a wide range of study and personal experiences. The joy they have in bringing it all together shines through.




Friday, April 28

Expanding the Seasons and My Knowledge in the Garden

Gardening has always been a part of my life in varying degrees. From my earliest days of toddling behind each of my grandmothers in their own uniquely created gardens, to my own beginning urban gardening attempts as a young adult I have delighted in growing plants for food and beauty. I have had at least a bit of garden through the years while raising and homeschooling my children. Currently, I am in the process of reclaiming a suburban yard from what we left as the open space for the outside yard activities - badminton, wiffleball, volleyball in the summer and backyard hockey in the winter. 

Growing more each year, I have been learning to expand the harvest. How to produce more. Learning to grow what I can, where I am and how to produce more in a suburban yard. Our yard is a reasonable size. It is larger than most in our neighborhood in the near west suburbs of Chicago. There is ample space for growing many things. Even having the space there are benefits to growing some plants best in a limited space. The raspberries for example, do well along the alley and next to the side of our garage. If it weren't for these restrictions the canes would be sprouting up without barriers and demand ongoing attention to keep them from taking over the entire yard or maybe even neighborhood. In this restricted space the alley traffic is enough to keep them from spreading into the alley and the garage takes care of the other side. Brilliant placement, if I do say so myself! 

The best part is the abundant harvest every summer.

 Another surprise bonus to their location is the contribution of the many spruce trees growing on our property. The fallen needles apparently add to the soil content that raspberries (and roses) really like. When my husband sweeps those needles off the driveway, I follow him around to insure they are deposited into the raspberry bramble and not into the yard waste bin. No doubt my golf course perfect lawn neighbors believe I'm nuts!

Raspberry Bramble

With minor maintenance our raspberry bramble continues 
to flourish and provide a daily dose of delightful color to breakfast for about six weeks every summer.






More delightful benefits last summer with plans to do it again.

Success with cabbage in the raised beds! These cabbages (below) were another surprise success last year. I'll be planting at least twice as many this spring. It was quite satisfying to harvest and make my own home brew sauerkraut out of them.

Look at these beauties!


Gotta go get dirty. See ya all in the garden!

Coming up again in the fall! Watch for words re the rose hip harvest when the leaves turn.

Rose Hip Tea Packed with Vitamin 'C'. Good for what ails you.


Tuesday, December 13

Into Another Level - Reading and Historical Understanding

Red Scarf Girl is a historical memoir
by Ji-li Jiang about her experiences
during the Cultural Revolution of China,
with a foreword by David Henry Hwang.

This story, told in the first person by Ji Li Jiang, raises awareness of what can happen in a country when an ideology of a dictator who achieves power uses the government to control the population. Ji Li's story does so in a way similar to what a reading of George Orwell's 1984 does, with the added emphasis of it being an actual memoir. Both titles shed light on the human desire for power and the natural tendency of governments to move toward institutional power and control if they are not kept in check. Both stories can also give us useful insights into the current context in the USA and around the world. Red Scarf Girl does so in an authentic way told from the perspective of someone who has lived through the kind of tyranny we in USA all thought we were (some still think we are) immune to.  

Red Scarf Girl was published in 1997. It foreshadows what we are in many ways seeing transpire today across the US and the world. One very important tactic described and currently being used to control the citizenry is the revision of history. Ji-Li's experience of historical revision reaches deeply into her personal and family life. Her understanding of her family's past is totally revised externally and in her own mind based on the propaganda of the Communist Party during Mao's cultural revolution. Students were given the definitive description of each class of people and every individual within that class. Each was determined to be an enemy or an ally to the regime based on the class status of their ancestors and other family members. No discussion. No nuance. No reality. You are who we say you are. There is no escaping your class background.

If you have any interest in studying this phenomenon or the history of it, you can read a stack of high level academic works (I'll list some below that I have found worthwhile) and of course George Orwell's work, but honestly and especially for your own children and students (depending on their age) there may not be a need to read a highly emotionally charged and/or advanced reading or difficult text when we still have valuable first person accounts like this one from Ji Li Jiang. 

1984 is emotionally hard to read and even more so is Brave New World, in my opinion. Red Scarf Girl is geared towards readers of about a 6th-7th grade reading level. Red Scarf Girl presents the facts of one persons life, which do in fact carry an emotional charge, but not to the extent that the reader (unless highly sensitive) will find the need to turn away from the story. However, please, do be available for discussion and processing as it will certainly raise intensely important questions for students.

Amazingly though, this recount of the author's life in China lays out in many ways the techniques of censorship and manipulation. Most pertinent to the discussion in my view is that we are currently  experiencing the same techniques in the West.

I'd say this is a must read and given the reading level it will be a quick read for most, especially adults. It provides a window into history, worldview ideology, politics and opportunities for learning and  discussions involving each of those subjects. And if you are interested in a deeper dive, have time and the reading aptitude, below is a more extensive list:

In Order to Live by Yeonmi Park - A story similar to Red Star Girl from Korea.
Animal Farm by George Orwell 
1984 by George Orwell - Both Orwell titles should be a warning not a blueprint.
The Communist Manifesto by Karl Marx - We might as well hear it from a sources of communist ideology.
The Gulag Archipelago 1918–1956 by Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn - This one is a more personal experience & more intense, a long hard read.
Cynical Theories: How Activist Scholarship Made Everything about Race, Gender, and Identity―and Why This Harms Everybody by Helen Pluckrose and James Lindsay - Important scholarly work from these two accomplished academics.

Thursday, September 22

Words, words, words...

Actions speak louder than words. It is common to place importance on action over speech. We all speak to it on occasion. We admire people who's actions reflect the spirit of the words they speak. We want our people, especially our leaders with any power or authority to walk the talk. We also know that due to human nature it easier to say the right thing than to do the right thing. From the simplest commitment, "I'll call you." to the biggest, "I'll never leave you." saying the words are just the very beginning. Even with the commitments we make to ourselves, the words flow like water from the faucet but the work often requires the digging of a well.

The right words sell products. Politicians use the words we want to hear to sell themselves. In the last several decades, generally and right now in the months before an election specifically, words reign over action.
 

Attempts are constantly being made to convince us or manipulate us with words. 


Even the very meanings of words are being manipulated, often in a covert way. There is a new (or maybe not so new, perhaps I've been unaware) media marketing genre, if you will, the intentional misuse of words. Words that are generally assumed to mean one thing actually being used with an different meaning entirely, as a calculated means to get agreement or to confuse listeners. In many cases this has gone to the extreme, up means down and down means up. Truth is obscured, we are lied to. If we hear them enough, lies become the truth. We are expected to live by the lies whether they are our own or the tall tales of others spoken loudly and publicly.



This works to enlist others into something (a product, a service, an idea), they think they understand, but truly know nothing about. And who of us isn't hesitant to admit not knowing the meaning of a simple word or an often used phrase for fear of outing our own ignorance. If we discover the discrepancy, we are likely too far in to admit our own gullibility, misunderstanding or stupidity.

I think we have all likely noticed the tendency these days in media, in politics, sadly even in the pulpits, for people to cover facts, especially personal facts, regarding the lack of meaningful actions. Maybe even in ourselves, to please people, to win favor, to get elected. The route to giving the appearance of walking the talk these days is as likely to be to change the words and their meanings over demanding more of ourselves in our understandings, in our communications or in our actual behavior. 

Actions may speak louder than words but how we use and understand words influences our thoughts and behaviors. 

So use and listen to words wisely. Improve your own vocabulary and commit with me to asking others (in spite of feeling dumb) to clarify what definitions are being used, to clarify that we are using mutually agree upon terms so that we can truly and honestly communicate, so that our conversations foster understanding and contribute to the most prosperity for the most people by maintaining a free and open market place of ideas respectfully shared.

More to be posted soon - on improving our vocabulary so that we can increase our understanding of the people around us and the topics that interest us. 

Cheerio.

Friday, August 12

Parenting Young Athletes - Part 1

First published in 2016.

Like most people, I am inspired by the amazing accomplishments of athletes who have achieved excellence and world class status in sports. Watching an Olympic event can bring tears to my eyes as I realize the possibilities inherent in human talent and commitment. For an athlete to become part of an Olympic team and compete on a world stage takes dedication to a single goal beyond what many of us have or are even witness to very often. It is truly amazing what can be achieved through focus and commitment.

I am even more likely, brought to tears, by watching my own children perform in their selected sports. It is, naturally, the modest performances of my own, that strikes a cord of awe and pride most deeply in the heart of their mom. The background knowledge of the support and love required to even attempt greatness in athletics brings home certain universal aspects of being human and what it really takes to achieve a dream.

At bat.

We currently have three serious athletes in our immediate family. One baseball player and two gymnasts. Our daughter is a gymnast and we are also currently hosting an international student gymnast. As parents, we walk a fine and demanding line of supporting their pursuits in sports and helping them achieve a balance in their lives.

Our goals for our children include taking into account all other areas of life and achievement, most importantly long term health and happiness. While sports participation can contribute to those ends, it can also overtake them. It can displace them, distort them or focus them more sharply.





As a mother of young athletes, I am a witness to the daily effort needed for even the most basic involvement in a sport. It takes a committed family to enable a young person to follow the dream of athletic participation, at any level. What it takes for the highest levels of achievement is incomprehensible to me at times, when just getting my child to the field or the gym requires me to do back flips (metaphorically) given the other responsibilities of raising children and maintaining a household.

USAG Eastern Nationals 2016


Sports achievement, requires first and foremost a committed, driven athlete and a supportive family. It also requires a team of knowledgeable and talented coaches and athletic trainers.

There can be the need for expertise in sports related counseling sessions, injury prevention or injury recovery. On occasion, there is the need for physical therapists, sports doctors and surgeons. High level sports participation requires the constant struggle of single purpose against the odds of circumstance and available resources.







High achievement requires a heavily resourced band wagon.


As sports parents, we have the responsibility of providing healthy nutrition on a daily basis, providing the required apparel for practice, games and competitions, (there is lots of laundry), scheduling, driving, oversight of academic achievement and creating an environment of support that includes the opportunity for rest and downtime. The sourcing of all of this falls squarely on the shoulders of the parents, to find, provide, utilize and fund. High achievement isn't cheap.

Healthy daily nutrition is a must.

There are times, when it is difficult to address the needs of other individual family members while supporting a driven young athlete. For the athlete, there is a constant demand of staying focused and committed while living a life of balance. For parents, it requires the constant outlay of resources to the endeavor. In some families this may place limitations on other activities for siblings. Maintaining an intense practice schedule and allotting the resources for it takes creativity while continuing to consider the needs of other family members. For some sports, such as gymnastics, the longest time off from practice in an entire calendar year is only one week. Trying to juggle that in a family of athletes with working parents, who have employer dictated vacation weeks, has meant short and sweet family vacations that are more accurately described as extended weekends.



What really matters...


As we continue supporting our children as athletes, I have come to realize that for our family, the discipline that is most important is beyond all of the athletic training. For the young athlete with high aspirations, there is the need to focus so much on ones own pursuit that the consideration of the others living with and around them can be easily overlooked. It is important to me to emphasize the value of family, friends and loved ones for their own sake. I try in word and deed, to remind our driven athletes of the value of others in their lives, beyond the contribution they make to the personal sports goals of the athlete.

Wherever our children end up in their athletic adventures, whether it be culminated in high school sports participation or beyond, hopefully their participation and learning will contribute to the growth of more well rounded, disciplined and aware people (parents included). The real goal in sports participation is the growth of people who know what it takes to love and support others, are better able to contribute to the well being and lives of others and to effectively improve the world in which they live.

For an amazing look into the gymnastics life of Olympic champion McKayla Maroney as she reflects on her career, watch her fascinating interview on GymCastic.

Or for a very personal and revealing coming of age story set in the demanding world of elite gymnastics read Chalked Up by Jennifer Sey. Available on amazon.



Sports Participation Builds Character and a Heartwarming Little Leaguer Story Video

After so many years watching my boys play in Little League and the dedicated hours my husband spent coaching and encouraging players throughout the years, I love seeing positive stories from the games and especially from the Little League World series in Williams Port, Pennsylvania. We never had the luck and fortitude to make it there as a competing team but there were many years that we went as spectators. Those little fields are gorgeous and the all volunteer event is run smoothly and with friendly enthusiasm. I saw this heartwarming video on https://worldwatch.news yesterday morning. Watch and see just one sweet example of how sports participation can help build character.


Wednesday, March 2

Reading A Hillbilly Elegy

I love learning new words. I didn't know the meaning of the word elegy when I picked up Hillbilly Elegy to read. And I still didn't when I finished reading it. Just now as I sat to write my response to this honest description of growing up in working class poverty by J.D. Vance, did I finally look up the definition. As a reader who grew up in a working class family, I suspect J. D. would understand that order of fulfilling my curiosity. I love learning new words. My interest in incorporating new vocabulary into my speech is just one small example of how this story resonates for me. I relate personally to this memoir on many levels, the most obvious simply the familiarity of the experiences described. 

elegy

el-i-jee ]

a mournful, melancholy, or plaintive poem, especially a funeral song or a lament for the dead.

a poem written in elegiac meter.

a sad or mournful musical composition.



It isn't actually my interest in learning new words that provides one of many connections to J.D. Vance's story, but more accurately the experiences of being rebuffed for trying to use any new vocabulary in my day to day speech in a working class neighborhood as a child. The culture I grew up in was not Kentucky "hillbilly" the label J.D. Vance uses for his own family background but the experiences of my own raised poor working class upbringing would be recognizable to the folks in Vance's childhood community. 

I made a new acquaintance recently during my reading of the book, carrying it along on a recent trip. Having already read the title she saw I held, she said it was hard to read. After sharing her thoughts of dismay and shock about events in the story, she asked my reaction to the book. I launched into my own disturbing family stories. My retelling of similar family experiences was probably more than she expected. My own life is filled with crazy poor working class substance abuse stories passed down from earlier generations of my family and lived through in my childhood. 

Addiction, co-dependence, domestic violence, teen pregnancies and limited higher education were all a part of my life growing up, but fortunately so was a reasonably good public education system, a neighborhood of families who kept an eye on each other's kids and accessible public libraries. Those community resources were contributing factors in being able to rise above the disfunction I was raised in, but so was my own innate curiosity about the lives of others and the options I had a glimpse of. It was books filled with words of the life stories of others, books with promises of more somewhere else, sometime in the future, books that offered a mental escape. Holding those promises in my heart was a way to get through it all with the hopes of more and dreams of peace intact.

Hillbilly Elegy presents the hardships suffered by the working class in a specific part of our country but I've lived through and seen similar problems in other geographic locations in the US.  Despite the hardships presented, Hillbilly Elegy is a story of hope and the accomplishments that can be made by one individual with the right love, encouragement and support to back them. 

In just the last few days, I've learned that J.D. Vance is currently making an attempt to spread that hope further by running as a candidate for the US Senate in Ohio. Based on what I've come to know about him, I'd say he'd be an excellent voice for the people he would represent.

Sunday, January 9

Year End - Into 2022 Reads

For me, 2021 ended with the luxurious opportunity for some cozy long days of reading. I plowed through two titles by a writer I recently discovered. Rod Dreher is a Christian writer whose words in these works provide an analysis for a deeper understanding of our current times and for encouragement I've been in need of. New directions have been brewing both spiritually and geographically for me as I've struggled with the new realities of post modern, post pandemic living. Both The Benedict Option and Live Not By Lies include thought provoking ideas for personal spirtitual consideration and what to consider going forward in communty.


Rod Dreher's The Benedict Option provides a potential guide for Christians during these times and place of what he describes as a post-christian nation. Not neccessarily a welcome description of where we are as a country but it is always a relief to read or hear the words of someone as they describe what one has been witnessing but unable to articulate for oneself.




The second title I dove into immediately after finishing The Benedict Option holds even more direct relevance to the immediate events in our times. The acknowledgement by more and more Americans of the similarities of what is currently happening in our country in the name of safety to the tyranny that our countrymen fought to eliminate in the past. As stated inside the jacket cover, Live Not By Lies is the wake-up call we need. Whether drawn to the Christian aspects of Dreher's work or not, I hope many will find their way to this title in particular with it's poignant examples of immigrant citizens who have experienced the drama, fear and horrors of living through and escaping from totalitarian governments.

My own experience includes hearing stories from survivors of authoritarian regimes, as well. Their recollections have remained with me, in some cases for decades now. Their knowledge and insights demand that we heed their warnings. Rod Dreher has put together the intellectuall reasoning as well. His writing is worth your time to read whatever your personal spiritual approach is.

Another enlightening story that reveals current lived reality from around the world is In Order to Live, A North Korean Girl's Journey To Freedom by Yeomi Park. Yeomi Park's first hand experiences of living in and risking an escape from North Korean is told in her recent bookHer real life story is a fast and dramatic read that is another important title to aid in the understanding of what tyranny still exists and where it has the potential to develop further. To raise awareness of the fact that totalitarianism could indeed happen in the USA, I highly recommend this memoir.


I anticipate 2022 to be a year of contiunued adaptation and learning for all. My reading goals for the New Year will include catagories that stretch my mind and improve my understanding of history. With courage and God's leading I pray I will be able to learn to be a greater influence in my community.

Thursday, December 16

The Arts, Artists & History

Last summer, my daughter, joyfully accepted the opportunity to participate in the studio training company of The Texas Ballet Theater. The sole purpose of her move to Dallas was to dance and perform. Opportunities to perform with The Texas Ballet Theater Company were promoted extensively as an important aspect of the studio training company. The potential to be a part of The Texas Ballet Theater Company's performances was a dream come true for her.

"Under U.S. law, you have the right to
refuse EUAs. And you must be informed of
all that is known and unknown about
risks and benefits." Meryl Nass, MD
Following several weeks of class, she along with a few select studio training company students, were asked to perform with the Texas Ballet Theater's professional company in the upcoming production of the Nutcracker. After accepting the offer, the students were informed of the requirement to have the non-approved FDA experimental injection, as a condition for participation. This condition was presented only after we made major decisions including her acceptance to joining the studio training company, paying fees, apartment rentals, etc. She submitted a notification of exemption per her God given right to bodily autonomy protected by our constitution.


On September 20, 2021, she received notification from The Texas Ballet Theater's Human Resources Department denying her the opportunity to participate in the Company's production of the Nutcracker, discriminating against her due to her religious beliefs and violating her constitutional right to be exempt from an experimental medical requirement. 

After several abandoned attempts to compose my thoughts in writing regarding this unexpected, unconstitutional, and unethical requirement, I've decided to change my approach. I've decided not to dwell on the science, given that evidence based peer reviewed research (or lack there of) is not considered in any of the required Covid responses inside or outside of the arts community. Nor will I continue to bring to the table any discussion based on religious beliefs, as many dance companies including The Texas Ballet Theater have also made the decision to disregard any & all personal beliefs of conscience and discriminate against dancers and staff who provide notice of religious exemption.

History Repeats Itself

Instead, I'd like to share a true story of my daughter's heritage. Her great-grandparents on my husband's side of the family were performing artists in Estonia in the 1930s. Her great grandmother, Ellie Eskola was a professional ballerina. She danced with the Tallin Ballet in the capital city of Estonia. Her great grandfather, Ants Eskola was a well-known actor and singer. He was also a painter and pursued other artistic interests. The couples' flourishing and successful careers in the arts were interrupted by WWII. Their small but vibrant country of Estonia became occupied by tryannical regimes on both extremes of the political spectrum from left and right. Dictators hungry for power can come from both directions, geographically and ideologically.


Performing Arts Careers Interrupted

Ants and Ellie were well known public figures in Estonia at the time. Ants especially had enough notoriety to be recognized as an influential voice. His outspoken opinions against the world's dictators were not appreciated and landed Ants in the hands of the Soviet troops. Arrested by the soldiers occupying their country, Ants was reported to his family as dead. It was reported to Ellie that her husband had been shot and killed by his imprisoners. Along with about ten percent of the population of Estonia, Ellie and her two children fled their home country. 


Housed in a refugee camp for a number of years, Ellie and her two children plus an added infant relocated to the USA in the late nineteen forties.  Actually alive during those years, the truth that Ants' life had been spared was revealed much later. Details of his life in a gulag were not disclosed to his family during his imprisonment. 

Having survived years of imprisonment, Ants was released from the deplorable conditions of the Soviet prison. He had like all other Estonian survivors still living in their homeland, without consent, become a soviet citizen. 

"The Estonian Soviet Socialist Republic was a republic of the Soviet Union. The ESSR was initially established on the territory of the Republic of Estonia on 21 July 1940, following the occupation of Soviet troops on 17 June 1940 and the installation of a communist government backed by the Soviet Union, which declared Estonia a Soviet constituency."  - Wikipedia

Survival

Celebrity status didn't confer many benefits during the Soviet occupation of Estonia. Ants was not allowed by the state to leave the country to visit his family once they rediscovered the where abouts of one another. Ants was allowed however to resume practicing his craft and began acting again. The arts were of course Soviet controlled and government centered at the time. All productions were state approved propaganda. Even within that context Ants Eskola's fame continued. He was awarded the honorary title of  People's Artist of the USSR in 1964 granted to artists of the Soviet Union.

In the 1960s, still under the rule of the Soviets, Ants was finally allowed to visit his first family in the U.S. but only solo without any family members including his second wife and the family he had since established with her. 

So, what's the point of telling you this story of family history. Well, here's the point - history repeats and certain human characteristics remain the same for individuals, groups, cultures, and societies. 

The spotlight confers value to artists. They hold an influential position in society, especially if they are well known. Many have a personal message of insight, belief or vision to share. In a truly free system or society their message will be widely displayed and welcome. Their vision may touch some and not others. Their message may take hold, it may spark a movement in any number of possible ways; artistic, spiritual, economic, or political. In a government-controlled society such as the Soviet Union or the Third Reich and Nazi Germany, if a message is contrary to the politically powerful that message will be silenced. In the context of government overreach and tyranny, the only story given consideration or even allowed to see the light of day will be the one useful to those in positions of power. The narrative will be limited to one that promotes more power for those who desire control over the lives of others.


Human Nature Loves Power

Individuals and regimes seeking to gain power will do whatever it takes to establish and maintain it. Establishing control of the artists, what they produce and present, in a society is a well-known and very useful tool for maintaining the story line. The artists, dancers, musicians and writers provide access to beauty, to relevant questions, and to the powerful insights needed to discover truth.

Once in power, a regime in control will construct every obstacle imaginable to limit the ability to share insights most notably provided by creative individuals. No new insights allowed, no new thinking allowed, and absolutely no challenges to a dictatorial political class holding power. Only messages giving a boon to political power and death to creativity.

The lives of true artists are filled with insight and revelation. They hold historically valuable insights as well as the discovery of new approaches. Creative individuals with a unique viewpoint and an encouraging message to others to pursue individual dreams and creativity will be first on the lists targeted for repression. Demands for obedience by the state, to the state, of the messengers of individual creativity will be high.

Individual thought and unique responses to life's ever-changing circumstances & challenges will be discouraged and even outlawed. Threats to the livelihood and potentially to the very life of any rouge and successful living artist will be made.

This is in fact what has happened in the past in our world. My daughter's ancestors have only one of the many sad stories from the proliferation of tyranny around the globe during WWII. Their story illustrates that when the state grabs power over its citizens there will inevitably be loss, chaos and human suffering. We live in a unique country in all the world and our history of freedom has been unprecedented in world history. Here it was established that the government would be limited and controlled by 'we the people' not the people controlled by government. All of that is currently in jeopordy by the extensive overreach of our government; local, state and federal.

Artists Have Influence

That the arts have become a useful agent of control for those in power is obvious around the country. Arts organizations are flexing muscle as agents of governmental control. The Texas Ballet Theater is no exception. For the arts to continue as a truly creative activity of beauty and revelation; striving to elicit insight, to encourage discovery and to engender courage, arts organizations are going to have to stand up together against the desire to control the personal choices made by the artists they claim to support, not participate in it. If the organizations claiming to be for the arts cannot stand against the threats to the autonomus thinking and freedom to make personal choices without being ostrasized from community then we are already a long way down the road of only producing propaganda and not art. If there is any hope for those within the dance community with dreams of sharing their unique artistic vision it lies only with those willing to stand against the tyranny and medical segregation, we are all now experiencing.

Supporting the arts has taken on a whole new meaning. Please, join me in standing for freedom in the arts and in all of American life.

Friday, September 17

Fall Student Attendance Concerns - My Letter Shared - Local Classrooms Part 2

This photo is from my local elementary school district's website. (The one my kids didn't go to because we homeschooled.) I was looking up school board member contact info to share my concerns regarding school mask mandates on children, (my email and the board president's email response below, the subject line mispell was from the board pres, not me). The irony of the photo struck me. Given that I would happily wager that the most often asked question of homeschooling parents is "What about socialization?" Over the years I developed a collection of my own potential responses to the socialization question but I won't go into those right now. I'll just let the school website pic below speak to that and wonder if parents and educators will now finally turn that same question back to their school boards. 

"What about socialization?"


D95 Board response

Inbox

Mark Kuzniewski mkuzniewski@district95.org


to meBarbJackieJessicaKatieMeaghanMelissaElizabeth
Angie-

Please accept this response to your email to board members on August 12.  I am responding 
on behalf of the Board.

Thank you for expressing your views on masking.  At this time, we are under an executive 
order from the Governor wherein masks are mandatory for all students, staff, and visitors 
to a school.  Once this mandate is lifted, the District will evaluate the local metrics to determine
if masking will be optional for vaccinated people.

Again, thank you for sharing your opinion.


Dr. Mark Kuzniewski
Superintendent
Brookfield-District 95
708-588-8701

Angie Runyan angielrunyan@gmail.com


to mmcateer
Thu, Aug 12, 6:09 PM
Dear District 95 Schoolboard Member,

I am contacting you as a Brookpark District 95 resident and homeowner.
As an engaged community member, I spent many years as a La Leche League volunteer 
and morecurrently as a lactation consultant supporting new mothers in Brookfield and the
surrounding suburbs.In that capacity, I share evidence based information with mothers of 
newborns as they work to achieve their breastfeeding goals.

My investment in my community may not be as obviously visible as some of the more outwardly 
parent results made by contributions of other Brookfierld and Lagrange Park residents, but to the 
parents who learned about newborn and early childhood care my input has frequently been 
significant at a crucial time in the life of a family. I know that my support during the life altering 
time of welcoming a new baby into a family hasinfluenced many parent/child relationships long 
after I met new parents.

It is with that investment and influence in my community as my catalyst, that I am writing to 
share my deep concerns about any requirements for school age children to cover their faces 
with masks throughout the day in a classroom or other educational setting. Masks, social
distancing and the fear induced by these practices are all hindrances in an educational 
setting, specifically to academic learning and in general to human development in all areas 
of growth and achievement. There are many concerns regarding delayed language skills, 
emotional and social development and more imposed by enforced social obstacles and 
installing excessive fear in children. Socio emotional learning and functioning is jeopardized 
by the restrictions placed on children's ability to read and erceive the expressions of both 
peers, teachers and caregivers.

Add to those concerns that there is ample evidence based on research that there is 
"no reductionin viral transmission with the use of face masks".(1) and I think there is a 
strong case for allowingthe option for families to come to their own conclusions regarding 
the costs and benefits of masking their own children.

Given the concerns of harm imposed on developing young ones and based on a lack of data 
tosupport the efficacy of mask wearing to reduce the spread of the Covid virus, I request that 
the School Board of Brookpark District 95 institute the option for families to choose for their 
own children whether or not they will wear masks during school attendance.

Sincerely,
Angie Runyan


1. Nonpharmaceutical Measures for Pandemic Influenza in Nonhealthcare 
Settings—Personal Protective and Environmental Measures, Jingyi Xiao1, Eunice Y. C. Shiu1,  
Huizhi Gao, Jessica Y. Wong, Min W. Fong, Sukhyun Ryu, and Benjamin J. Cowling 
(Volume 26, Number 5, May of 2020). 

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Angie Runyan M.A. IBCLC  PCD(DONA)

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